Making new friends as an adult is unreasonably hard. Love Tank is the fix.
Love Tank started as a personal frustration. After moving through several seasons of Lagos life — university, early career, relocations — I noticed how many people around me were professionally thriving but quietly lonely. Not for lack of wanting connection, but for lack of structure that made connection easy.
The insight: we have apps for everything from food delivery to dates, but nothing purpose-built for platonic friendship. And the platforms that do exist — group chats, Facebook groups — don't actually facilitate the vulnerability and consistency that friendship requires.
Design Principle
Reduce the activation energy for connection. Every product decision asked: does this make it easier or harder for someone to take the next step toward a genuine relationship?
The design process was simultaneously product and community design. I ran the early version of Love Tank as a structured offline initiative — monthly events, small groups, intentional prompts — before trying to productize any of it. That real-world testing shaped every UX decision.
Key design decisions: asynchronous voice notes over text (more warmth, less pressure), opt-in activity pods over open feeds (depth over breadth), and a matching algorithm weighted toward shared values over shared interests (values create lasting friendships; interests create small talk).
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Retention after 3 months
What I'd do differently: the product design needs to separate more cleanly from the community facilitation. Right now, so much of Love Tank's value lives in human curation. The next version needs to encode that wisdom into the product itself — so the experience scales without losing its warmth.